Sometimes they will just stop paying attention to you. Or worse, they do not have your best interests at heart from the start. So how to break up from the pattern where they take you for granted? You can bail yourself out but what if you want to stay? The obvious best way for me is to actually sit down and talk to them. But you always have a choice and it is in your hands. You don’t really have to stay. No, not really. Sometimes fighting a loosing battle is so hard and tiring it consumes all of your energy. You can’t be the only one who gives the relationship the efforts and attention it needs, while your partner is missing in action. Why give your heart to someone who in return treats you like a piece of sh*t? Sounds like you don’t even have a heart eh? But…